3 Things Sabotaging Your Dating Profile (and How to Fix Them Now)
YOUR PHOTOS SAY NOTHING ABOUT YOU!
THE PROBLEM: Too many women use selfies, group shots, or overly posed studio photos that say nothing about who they are or how they move in the world.
THE FIX: Your dating photos should feel warm, lived in, and a little aspirational. Show your lifestyle:
A full-body shot in an outfit you’d wear to drinks
A smiley photo mid-laugh
One photo that captures your energy (reading, walking, traveling)
Remember: People aren’t just swiping on your face. They’re swiping on a feeling.
YOUR BIO READS LIKE A RESUME OR A GROCERY LIST
THE PROBLEM: “Love travel, food, fitness and good vibes only.” Sound familiar? Generic bios blend in and communicate nothing unique or emotionally magnetic.
THE FIX: Use your bio to tell one mini story that creates curiosity.
Example:
“Fluent in sarcasm, red wine, and booking last-minute weekend trips. Looking for someone who can handle all three.”
Inject your tone, your quirks, and something unexpected
YOUR PHOTOS SAY NOTHING ABOUT YOU!
THE FIX: Energy attracts energy. Want a masculine, emotionally available man?
Your profile should reflect confidence, softness, and boundaries — not walls.
Say things like:
> “Drawn to men who are grounded, emotionally intelligent, and ambitious — bonus points if you’re a great communicator.”
THE PROBLEM: If your profile energy is neutral or overly masculine (“Don’t waste my time. I know what I want.”), you might unintentionally repel what you’re actually calling in.
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